The Essentials

narcissisttools.org is an informational site that helps you understand relationship confusion and reflect on your own situation.

The site operates no sign-up, appointment booking, professional counseling, message boards, or community features. Everything provided here is reference content for self-understanding — it is not medical care, mental health treatment, or therapy.

Section 1. The Scope of Professional Services

The articles and tools on this site cannot substitute for professional medical diagnosis, psychotherapy or counseling, or legal advice.

  • We provide no medical diagnosis of mental illness, personality disorders, trauma, or relationship problems.
  • We provide no individualized treatment plans, counseling direction, or legal judgment.
  • Do not use this site's content to diagnose or denounce another person on your own authority.

Section 2. Nature and Limits of the Self-Check Tools

The tests and practice tools on this site are reference materials that help you reflect on your feelings and on the words and behavior repeating in your relationships.

Item Notice
Test results A reference for examining your current state of mind — not a medical or clinical diagnosis.
Tool guidance General psychoeducation and self-protection guidance; not a substitute for individualized counseling.
Explanations and result text Written from credible sources, but completeness and currency are not guaranteed — treat as reference only.
AI worksheets and example sentences Some tools provide question sheets and example sentences you can use with outside AI services. Both the provided text and any AI's responses are reference material, never a basis for final judgment.

Section 3. Before Any Major Decision

Decisions about staying in a relationship, how to communicate, legal action, or professional treatment should start from your own circumstances and safety.

Nothing here can account for every detail of an individual situation. If you're facing a legal or medical judgment or any major step, consult a qualified professional in the relevant field first.

Section 4. External Links and Outside Services

The site may include external links, videos, and connections to outside AI services to aid understanding.

  • Content and privacy practices of outside sites, video platforms, and AI services are governed by those providers' own policies.
  • If you enter this site's content or worksheets into an outside AI service yourself, that service's policies govern the data and the responses it generates.
  • External links are provided for convenience and reference; the operator does not vouch for their reliability or completeness.

Section 5. In a Crisis

If your safety is threatened or you are in serious psychological crisis, seek immediate help from professionals or emergency services before using this site.

[Where to find help]

In a physical or psychological crisis — or whenever it's too hard to judge alone — don't rely on this site's writing. Reach out for professional help.

Contact someone you trust, a local counseling agency, a medical provider, or a legal aid organization that can give you the support you need.

If you're in immediate danger, call 911. The 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7 — call or text 988. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 800-799-7233 (or text START to 88788). If someone may be monitoring your device, consider calling from a safer device.

Section 6. Spread-the-Word Ground Rules

The spread-the-word campaign never asks you to disclose personal experiences of harm or private information.

  • The campaign is voluntary information-sharing: passing the site's link to someone who needs it.
  • When sharing, do not publicly diagnose or denounce a specific person, or post others' personal information and stories without consent.
  • narcissisttools.org does not treat anyone's voluntary sharing as official representation, counseling, reporting, or tips.
  • No monetary reward or other compensation is provided for participating.

Section 7. Questions and Changes to This Notice

This notice may change with site policy, applicable law, or changes to the service.