Narcissist Behavior Q&A
🧾 My spouse makes the big decisions alone
Moves, loans — whatever both of you will answer for must be decided in agreement. Ask yourself whether every decision arrives as a one-sided announcement.
The short answer
The home, the money, the kids — what both will carry, one person can't decide alone.
Scenes like this
- The move or the loan was decided solo; all they wanted from you was the signature.
- Objecting made you the one destroying the family.
How to tell the difference
Deciding at different speeds is one thing. Handing you the liability without your consent is another.
When this happens, try this
- Never sign a contract or loan document before examining it thoroughly.
- For unilateral decisions made without you, it's safest to leave a clear written record: "I never agreed to this decision."