Narcissism Glossary
holding the relationship hostage with threats of harm
🆘 A control tactic answering breakup or refusal with threats of harm — to themselves (self-harm, suicide) or to you — to bind you psychologically.
Whether they'd really do it is not yours to determine alone.
Whether they'd really do it is not yours to determine alone.
Often seen in situations like these
"If you leave, I'll kill myself" keeps you in place. Sometimes the threats extend to your family or your pet.
When this happens, try this
💡 For suicidal thoughts or crisis counseling, the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7 — call or text 988. If you see a specific plan or immediate danger, call 911. Alerting the people who can help comes before any promise of secrecy.