Narcissism Glossary

child support and visits used as bargaining chips

⚖️ The improper practice of converting legally protected child support and visitation rights into bargaining chips for personal demands.

The scope of these rights and duties depends on what was agreed, the court's orders, and the applicable law.

Often seen in situations like these

The child support will come — if you get back together. More money, or the visits stop.

When this happens, try this

💡 Record the child-related business and the relationship's emotions separately. If it stays blocked, look into family law counsel or formal mediation.

Type law & safety · Topic Family, marriage & co-parenting · Term Using Child Support or Visitation as Leverage · Also known as Using Child Support or Visitation as Leverage

Official sources & review information

Standard/jurisdiction United States · Last reviewed 2026.08.14

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