Narcissism Glossary

'Narcissistic abuse' is not a diagnosis

📖 A popular term used informally and online to describe the self-centered control behaviors that repeat in intimate relationships — gaslighting, coercive control, devaluation.

Neither a type of abuse unique to narcissism, nor a formal diagnostic or legal term.

Often seen in situations like these

People often reach this term searching for relationships marked by ongoing gaslighting, control, and shifted blame.

When this happens, try this

💡 Before their diagnosis, verify the words and behavior you actually experienced — and any safety issues — first.

Type explanatory concept · Topic Narcissism-adjacent terms · Term Narcissistic Abuse · Also known as Narcissistic Abuse

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