Narcissism Glossary

The one who shields the behavior (enabler)

๐Ÿค Someone who knows about the problem behavior yet looks away or makes excuses for it, helping the unfairness continue.

Common in the relationships hardest to walk away from โ€” family, the workplace.

Often seen in situations like these

๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ "Deep down they mean well. They're just bad at expressing it."
๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ "Cut them some slack โ€” they're under a lot of stress."
๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Knowing full well about the hurtful behavior, they tell the person who raised it to let it slide.

When this happens, try this

๐Ÿ’ก More realistic than persuading them: decide how much of your personal life reaches them. If they keep shielding the problem and demanding only your concessions, keep to necessary business and adjust the distance.

Topic People around them ยท Term Enabler ยท Also known as Enabler

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