Narcissism Glossary

The one who shields the behavior (enabler)

🤝 Someone who knows about the problem behavior yet looks away or makes excuses for it, helping the unfairness continue.

Common in the relationships hardest to walk away from — family, the workplace.

Often seen in situations like these

🗣️ "Deep down they mean well. They're just bad at expressing it."
🗣️ "Cut them some slack — they're under a lot of stress."
🗣️ Knowing full well about the hurtful behavior, they tell the person who raised it to let it slide.

When this happens, try this

💡 More realistic than persuading them: decide how much of your personal life reaches them. If they keep shielding the problem and demanding only your concessions, keep to necessary business and adjust the distance.

Topic People around them · Term Enabler · Also known as Enabler

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