Narcissism Glossary
Escalating conflict for attention (attention-seeking escalation)
💃 A pattern of repeated extreme words and acts engineered to extract attention and emotional reactions — trampling others' autonomy along the way. Big feelings and a need for attention aren't themselves wrong. Watch whether, after your no, the conflict still gets escalated and the reaction still gets forced.
Often seen in situations like these
🎭 Announcing the conversation is over only escalates the words and antics demanding everyone's reaction.
💬 A delayed response to their story earns you public blame in the group chat.
💬 A delayed response to their story earns you public blame in the group chat.
When this happens, try this
💡 Weigh not the size of the emotions but whether your choice not to react gets respected. Set when and how much you'll answer — and public call-outs don't require your immediate entry.