Narcissism Glossary
Pulled close, pushed away, on repeat (push-pull cycles)
🎢 The pattern of intense closeness and cold rejection alternating without consistency, keeping the other person in sustained anxiety. It rules on no one's inner state or diagnosis. A term for noticing whether the contact, affection, and promises swing wildly — and whether you stay anxious because of it.
Often seen in situations like these
💬 Yesterday it was forever; today the relationship is over, no explanation given.
🔁 Pull away and they grab hold; come close and the cold shove returns.
🔁 Pull away and they grab hold; come close and the cold shove returns.
When this happens, try this
💡 Weigh not the label but whether the contact and promises can be trusted, and whether your refusals and your life get respected. You needn't chase every sudden swing.