Narcissist Behavior Q&A
👥 They split the group into camps
Once the camps form, the actual facts sink under the rumors. Don't be swept along by what others say — start calmly from what you saw and lived yourself.
The short answer
Rather than polling the group on who's right, look at what you experienced directly.
Scenes like this
- After one falling-out, they messaged everyone to build a side.
- Staying neutral got you branded a traitor and edged out of the group.
How to tell the difference
Confiding in friends about a hard time is different from demanding that people choose a side.
When this happens, try this
- Secondhand stories may be rumors — verify the facts with the person involved.
- Don't burn energy rebutting every salvo in the group chat's camp wars. State your position objectively, once and with composure, then keep your distance.