Narcissist Behavior Q&A
📞 They contact my job, landlord, and family to pressure me
They've asked your job, landlord, and family to persuade or pressure you on their behalf. Write down who they contacted and what they demanded.
The short answer
They're contacting your job, your landlord, your family — asking them to persuade or pressure you. That's pressure through the people around you.
Scenes like this
- They called your workplace demanding it resolve a private conflict.
- They kept contacting your landlord or parents to push you out or talk you around.
How to tell the difference
Some contact may genuinely be necessary. Recruiting person after person until your daily life shakes is different.
When this happens, try this
- Ask friends and family briefly: "Please don't relay their messages to me."
- Keep short notes of the dates they contacted people and what they demanded, and if threats of showing up near your work or home continue, get help from a professional advocate or the police.