Narcissist Behavior Q&A
📅 The co-parenting schedule changes suddenly, every time
One change for a genuine emergency is different from a schedule that keeps changing without agreement.
The short answer
Rather than guessing their motives, write down how the plan changed and what the child went through.
Scenes like this
- Whether they'd take the child got announced the day of.
- Refusing brought the threat of never seeing the child.
How to tell the difference
Was the change unavoidable — or is the agreed process being ignored again and again?
When this happens, try this
- Put a concrete rule in writing by text: "Schedule changes need at least three days' notice to work."
- If they keep breaking the agreement unilaterally, skip the emotional battle — demand compliance firmly, grounded in the court's custody order or your written agreement.