Narcissist Behavior Q&A
🍻 They force after-hours drinks and personal errands
A legitimate work assignment and a boss's forced personal errand are entirely different things.
The short answer
No job title carries the right to compel drinking or personal errands.
Scenes like this
- You skipped the after-party, and your performance review entered the conversation.
- Weekend driving and family errands got assigned like work.
How to tell the difference
Look at whether it's a work assignment or a personal demand riding on rank.
When this happens, try this
- Keep a log: the dates and details of improper personal errands, and the workplace penalties that followed your refusals.
- Contact your HR grievance channel or the EEOC (800-669-4000) for the objective steps to take.