Narcissism Glossary

sorry in word, responsible in nothing

๐Ÿ™ A non-apology borrows only the form of one โ€” "I'm sorry if you felt that way" โ€” while dodging responsibility for the harm and attributing it to your reaction instead.

The apology's costume is there; the sincere remorse and the change are conspicuously absent.

Often seen in situations like these

"I'm sorry if you were hurt" โ€” followed by "but I only did it because you made me angry first."

When this happens, try this

๐Ÿ’ก A words-only sorry doesn't require your heart to open on cue. Watch, over time, whether they name their fault in plain words โ€” and whether their behavior, not their promises, shows the repetition ending.

Type explanatory concept ยท Topic Words & behavior ยท Term Non-apology ยท Also known as Non-apology

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