Narcissism Glossary

control and retaliation that outlive the breakup

๐Ÿšช Post-separation abuse is the effort to maintain dominance after the relationship ends โ€” through relentless contact, pressure worked through children and finances, and attacks on reputation.

When contact, approaches, and threats continue past the ending, safety measures and legal support each deserve their own look.

Often seen in situations like these

Blocked, the contact continues โ€” through new accounts, and through your friends.

When this happens, try this

๐Ÿ’ก If they're approaching or threatening now, move to where there are people and call 911. Once safe, log the contact and approaches by date, and check the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-7233) or a legal aid office (LawHelp.org) for protective and legal support.

Type law & safety ยท Topic Control & threats ยท Term Post-separation Abuse ยท Also known as Post-separation Abuse

Official sources & review information

Standard/jurisdiction United States ยท Last reviewed 2026.08.14

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