Narcissism Glossary
Forgiveness and reconciliation are different
🕊️ Forgiveness is the survivor's own inner process of settling resentment; reconciliation is a mutual agreement to resume the relationship on rebuilt trust. They are plainly distinct choices.
Not forgiving — or not deciding yet — is allowed. And forgiveness and renewed contact remain separate choices.
Not forgiving — or not deciding yet — is allowed. And forgiveness and renewed contact remain separate choices.
Often seen in situations like these
You can choose to set down the resentment — and still never make contact again.
When this happens, try this
💡 Neither forgiveness nor reconciliation needs a rushed decision. Whether to reconnect gets weighed on its own terms: safety, behavior change after the apology, and your own wishes.