Narcissism Glossary
The wound deep inside (core wound)
💔 Deep-seated shame or wounds formed far below awareness, shaping present-day relational reactions and defenses.
Knowing about their old wounds doesn't obligate you to absorb the present hurt and unfair behavior they aim at you.
Knowing about their old wounds doesn't obligate you to absorb the present hurt and unfair behavior they aim at you.
Often seen in situations like these
🛡️ Even a small criticism triggers outsized anger or blame.
🎭 Their achievements inflate while everyone else's shrink. Why, no outside observer can rule on.
🎭 Their achievements inflate while everyone else's shrink. Why, no outside observer can rule on.
When this happens, try this
💡 Remember: you are not the savior who can heal their wounds. Before laboring to understand their pain, look first at whether your own heart and standards are being respected right now.