Narcissism Glossary
One face in public, another up close (the social mask)
๐ญ The double-sided pattern of staging kindness and impeccable character in public while dealing in abuse, coldness, and control in close private relationships.
However glowing the outside reputation, the unjust treatment aimed at you doesn't un-happen.
However glowing the outside reputation, the unjust treatment aimed at you doesn't un-happen.
Often seen in situations like these
๐ Known outside as the devoted spouse or parent โ while at home, the family's opinions get overridden and the shouting begins.
๐ค Kind at the office; in anonymous corners of the internet, the insulting posts pile up.
๐ค Kind at the office; in anonymous corners of the internet, the insulting posts pile up.
When this happens, try this
๐ก Even when everyone insists "someone that kind would never," recheck your own standard. What you directly felt and lived through is far firmer fact than anyone's review of them.