Narcissist Behavior Q&A
🛑 I said no, but they keep touching me or continuing sex
Even between partners or spouses, your consent is required. Being too stunned to refuse is not consent.
The short answer
Partner or spouse, whether anyone may touch your body or have sex with you is yours to decide.
When this happens, try this
- Refusing or leaving on the spot can itself be dangerous. In that case, don't argue — find a safe place first.
- If you're injured or in danger now, don't hesitate — call 911. The RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline (800-656-4673) can also connect you to support services.
Scenes like this
- You said no, and they held you down or kept touching you.
- You woke up to find something you didn't want already happening.
How to tell the difference
Saying nothing, or being too stunned to react, is not the same as consenting.