Narcissist Behavior Q&A

☁️ I want to store my records safely

Your safety comes before gathering evidence. If discovery could bring retaliation, decide where the records live before anything else.

The short answer

Your safety outranks the records. If discovery would be dangerous, change how you store them first.

Scenes like this

  • They regularly go through your phone and cloud accounts.
  • You fear what happens if the notes are found.

How to tell the difference

First establish whether they can get into your devices and accounts at all.

When this happens, try this

  • Check whether they can access your devices and accounts, then decide with a trusted person or a support organization where the records will live.
  • If even changing a password could draw suspicion and danger, discuss the escape sequence with a support organization or an ally first.

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