Narcissist Behavior Q&A

🚪 Do I have to cut contact completely?

Total, perfect blocking isn't the only right answer. Choose the distance that best serves your real circumstances and your physical safety.
Setting the contact level that fits your situation
ApproachWhen it fits
Full blockNo reason for contact remains, and blocking is safer
Essential business onlyNecessary matters remain — co-parenting, settling expenses
Contact within set hoursYou want less pressure to reply instantly

The short answer

What matters isn't whether contact hit zero — it's whether your safety and your days are improving.

Scenes like this

  • Everyone insisted that only total blocking brings recovery.
  • Work or co-parenting means some contact has to remain.

How to tell the difference

Blocking is a tool for protecting yourself — not an exam that certifies your recovery. If there are threats or stalking, first learn how to cut contact safely and where to get help.

When this happens, try this

  • Choose whichever best protects your daily life: [full block / essential business only / contact within set hours].
  • If they keep mocking and overrunning the rules you set, the right move is to narrow the channels one more notch.

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