Narcissist Behavior Q&A
đ It got intense too fast from the start
Strong early affection isn't automatically a problem. Watch what happens when you ask to slow down â whether that pace is respected.
The short answer
More than the sweet words, watch whether "I'd like to go slower" actually slows them down.
Scenes like this
- Weeks in, marriage and moving in together were discussed as settled facts.
- They messaged all day and kept giving big gifts you'd declined.
How to tell the difference
Getting close fast can happen. What matters is whether they adjust the pace after hearing it's too much.
When this happens, try this
Don't answer the rushed proposals on the spot â take real time to think on your own. Above all, never hurry promises that entangle money, housing, or your name on paperwork.