Narcissism Glossary

Excessive pedestaling (idealization)

โœจ Early in a relationship, elevating someone into a flawless, perfect being. Strong attraction and abundant praise aren't automatically the problem.

Watch whether expectations get draped over you that don't match who you are โ€” and whether the warmth flips after a small difference or a refusal.

Often seen in situations like these

๐Ÿ˜ "You're the perfect person I've been dreaming of."
๐Ÿ˜‡ Everything about you is wonderful โ€” and no flaw is allowed to exist.

When this happens, try this

๐Ÿ’ก However lavish the praise, you can still take your own pace. Check whether respect survives your flaws and differing opinions โ€” and whether "this is too much" actually slows things down.

Topic Relationship pressure cycles ยท Term Idealization ยท Also known as Idealization

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