Narcissism Glossary

Excessive pedestaling (idealization)

✨ Early in a relationship, elevating someone into a flawless, perfect being. Strong attraction and abundant praise aren't automatically the problem.

Watch whether expectations get draped over you that don't match who you are — and whether the warmth flips after a small difference or a refusal.

Often seen in situations like these

😍 "You're the perfect person I've been dreaming of."
😇 Everything about you is wonderful — and no flaw is allowed to exist.

When this happens, try this

💡 However lavish the praise, you can still take your own pace. Check whether respect survives your flaws and differing opinions — and whether "this is too much" actually slows things down.

Topic Relationship pressure cycles · Term Idealization · Also known as Idealization

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