Narcissism Glossary
Your share and theirs blurred together (blurred responsibility)
🌫️ Blurring individual faults and responsibilities into 'our shared problem' — quietly dissolving one's own legal and emotional accountability in the fog.
The maneuver lets them slip their own responsibility while making you co-answer for things you never did.
The maneuver lets them slip their own responsibility while making you co-answer for things you never did.
Often seen in situations like these
🗣️ Their debt arrives at your door: "Are we strangers? What's yours is mine and what's mine is yours!"
🗣️ Your private setback balloons into "you've disgraced this entire family!"
🗣️ Your private setback balloons into "you've disgraced this entire family!"
When this happens, try this
💡 Don't be towed along by the warmth of 'we' — divide clearly what's yours to uphold and what's theirs to answer for. Money and obligations you never agreed to can be refused on the spot.