Narcissist Behavior Q&A

๐Ÿš— They drive recklessly to scare me in the car

That's using the car itself to instill fear. Inside a moving car, avoiding a serious crash comes before everything.

The short answer

Scaring you with sudden acceleration and hard braking can seriously injure everyone in the car.

When this happens, try this

  • Inside the moving car, avoid provoking them โ€” calmly ask them to pull over somewhere safe where there are people.
  • If a crash feels imminent, call 911 and give your current location and the license plate immediately.

Scenes like this

  • You said you wanted out, and they drove faster.
  • Mid-argument, they jerked the wheel toward oncoming traffic.

How to tell the difference

Being a clumsy driver is completely different from driving dangerously after you've asked to get out.

Official help resources

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